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A Personal Crossroads : Choosing Light or Darkness

The latest chapter of the global recession and financial meltdown to be revealed is the Bernie Madoff saga.  It demonstrates the ultimate corruption and deception that has taken hold within our world.  Personal gain at the indiscriminate expense of others, whether they be global corporations, wealthy individuals or charitable institutions.

We have been seduced by the “American Dream” for the past 20+ years, borrowed money we couldn’t afford, bought things we didn’t need and speculated wantonly in the pursuit of more and more. Avarice and stupidity at their respective best. Humanity at it’s collective worst.

So, we are at a crossroads.

My brother-in-law once described the choice we face as follows:  “Can’t keep propping up a dead dog .. At some point you bury it and buy a puppy and raise it differently.

Are we ready to bury this dead dog? Or will we simply continue to prop it up via additional loans to the Big Three, the banks, over-leveraged credit card holders, … the list continues. At what cost?

Looking a little more deeply, this crossroads and choice is a fundamentally spiritual one.

Some see this as simply the symptoms of another speculative bubble. “The market will correct itself.” The US taxpayer will pay for all of this greed and nothing needs to change. We’ll return to times of plenty once we’ve ridden out this current storm.

I believe we are being given a huge opportunity to change the game. To abandon the dominance of our selfish nature and to embrace a new world where giving back and caring for others is the path to our redemption. We have the opportunity to temper the destructive nature within ourselves where personal gain triumphs over everything else. We are being given the change to balance it with empathy, concern and care for others.

In the past there have been a select few who embraced this choice: Wealthy individuals, like Andrew Carnegie, Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, plus many who were scammed by Bernie Madoff, who embraced philanthropy.

Andrew Carnegie said it best when he wrote, “This, then, is held to be the duty of the man of Wealth: First, to set an example of modest, unostentatious living, shunning display or extravagance; to provide moderately for the legitimate wants of those dependent upon him; and after doing so to consider the surplus revenues which come to him simply as trust funds, which he is called upon to administer, and strictly bound as a matter of duty to administer in the manner which, in his judgment, is best calculated to produce the most beneficial results for the community – the man of wealth thus becoming the mere agent and trustee for his poorer brethren, bringing to their service his superior wisdom, experience and ability to adminster, doing for them better than they would or could do for themselves.

The quantum opportunity we have before us is to democratize this “giving” mindset beyond a select few. We have the tools to enable this change literally at our fingertips.  Technology and the Internet has provided a platform that connects all 6 billion of us on this planet like never before.  Let’s use it to serve others and thereby serve ourselves. Let’s elevate this world together via the enormous power our collective connectivity affords us.

I wrote about one powerful example of this a few weeks ago where a collective group of 336 people came together via Twitter and collected $10,000 in 48 hours to build a school in Tanzania.

The path of redemption is: survival (focused on the self) => servant (focused on others) => success => significance.

Imagine a world where we successfully leverage our social connectivity to contribute significantly to the upliftment of others less fortunate. That’s a powerful idea. An idea who’s time has come.  Now all we need to do is make the right choice.

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  • Love your post, David!

    These crazy times have one good side effect: introspection. Sadly, it's often some cataclysmic event that causes us to reflect - like the current convergence of so many things – war, global economic meltdown, terrorism, etc.

    I'm thinking of it as a really loud wake-up call that we need to get back to the basics and reprioritize understanding that we are all in this together - to your point "contribute significantly to the upliftment of others less fortunate"

    Thanks!

    Brandie
    (@Brandiei on Twitter)
  • Thanks Brandie!

    Hopefully we all hear the wake-up call and reprioritize .

    I'm convinced that a focus on social leverage / social capital will allow us to do more collective good than the strict focus on financial leverage / financial capital has done in the past.
  • Excellent post. Thank you for sharing your thoughts - I hope that many people will read this and feel compelled to take your words to heart.
  • AbbieKendall
    I cannot understand why you do not cite the two most damaging institutional culprits in world history: religion and government. Far, far worse than any corporation, wealthy individual (why on earth should you call out people of wealth vs. poor people??), or so-called charitable organization. Less spirituality/less voo-doo/more logic = a better life for all. Pleasepleaseplease read Atlas Shrugged (or at least, "We the Living").
  • bravo! thanks for this
  • Thanks for the retweet :)
  • Paul
    Well done David. My wife and I have been trying to live this idea since I left Aeroplan (see www.thruyou.com especially towards the end of Jan. when the 'beta' is released). It has not been easy either financially or personally. I would characterized the rewards differently from your formula, i.e. servant =>self-knowledge=>enlightenment=>peace. Caution: having lived immersed in the third sector for two years, I have some misgivings about where philanthropy is going as everyone jumps on the bandwagon. We must be vigilant.
  • David,

    Thought provoking and inspiring!

    So much of what you say is reflected in Zeitgeist : Addendum
    http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=7065205...

    It's an exciting realization that we have an opportunity to change some fundamental building blocks of our society and hopefully live to see the results.

    Tamir
  • Tanzania aspect was truly cool
  • jen
    Beautifully said David - we are certainly at a crossroads. When I still see the shopping malls packed, I do hope/wonder if people have learned any lessons.
  • Love this posting. Have you read Lynn Twist's "The Soul of Money?" In it, she says something about how we have to "hospice out the current system" and give birth to a new one. I am so with you... let's pray that the fear of this kind of change doesn't trump our ability to pull it off.
  • Thanks Bronwyn! I haven't read her book but will add it to my library :)
  • loved it. your bro in law sounds smart
  • Thanks Howard. He was smart. Sadly he passed away unexpectedly before his time.
  • Horrible. Glad I found your blog as well.
  • David, this is a very important post. You've identified one of the salient points for changing the culture of our society, Yesterday I had started a post about the lack of pride in a job well-done, but after reading your piece I'm contemplating some changes in the tone and take-aways. Thanks for writing.
  • Excellent post!
  • Jeanette Brook
    Your Blog is very thought provoking, and makes one stop and think how very true this age of materialism has taken hold. I was listening to a radio station today where they were asking children what they wanted Santa Claus to bring them for Christmas. Their 'wants' were mind boggling....Costs no deterent. Thousands of Dollars for a mere whim of a child and the doting, (perhaps guilts) of the parents, willing to satisfy these children. Is that where it all begins? This desire to want more and more. Time to stop and take note.
  • Dave Sylvestre
    Beautifully articulated and inspiring.

    The zeitgeist is truly about Change. Irrespective of what you think of Obama he was right on the money with that message.
    All reasonable, thinking people, (lefts, rights, moderates) recognize that we’re complicit in this mess. We’re burying the dog as we speak.
  • Bryan Fuhr
    Great post, David. So many people are searching right now. I look at 2009 as an opportunity to find new purpose in life, in relationships, in country, in work.
  • You hit it spot on Bryan. It's about filling the void with true purpose.
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